The Mama Perspective | Mum Blog

As I sit down to write this post, I can’t help but think about the incredible journey me and Danny have been on for over 10 years. Becoming mummy and daddy to our little boy is up there as the best thing to happen to the both of us. It’s been a rollercoaster of emotions, sleepless nights, and countless nappy changes. But in the middle of the beautiful chaos, there’s something that I want to share – how motherhood has changed me.

I’m stronger than before

I’m stronger than I ever thought I could be. I don’t just mean pregnancy, labour, and giving birth, or the meltdowns between cries, and tantrums. There’s something that’s given me the confidence to stand up for myself though I’m still in the process of sticking to my gut when I believe in something.

A new perspective

Motherhood has also given me a new perspective on time and how precious it is. I used to think I was busy before, but now I understand what it means to spend time with your family and how they will always come first. Every minute counts, and I’ve learned to prioritise and make the most of each day including all the little moments. It’s no longer just about me; it’s about creating a loving home for our boy.

And here’s another thing, patience. Some days I have it and other days it’s challenging. The cries, the toys around the room, and trying to figure out what’s wrong – they’ve all taught me to take a deep breath and approach things calmly. I’ve realised that it’s not about dealing with everything at once but about being there, listening, and comforting when needed.

Stronger relationships

As a parent, I’ve also become even closer to my mum. I now understand some of the decisions she made and her great deal of love in a way that I didn’t quite see it as before.

But perhaps the most beautiful change is falling in love with Danny all over again. Seeing him become a dad, the love and care he has for our son, it’s everything.

So, it’s clear to see that motherhood has changed me in many positive ways. I hope that other mums reading this post take one thing away – embrace the way motherhood has changed you.