The Mama Perspective | Mum Blog

Freddy is stuck into his school routine now over the last 3 months and he’s learning more every day. Over the Christmas holidays, he’s been saying more words, singing more songs, and just being his usual happy self. We’re so proud of him. Other than the school update, there’s more news to share…

I’ve been in the middle of writing a blog post for weeks, no wait, a few months now. But I’ve had to stop to be sick or fall asleep. Can you guess why? I’m pregnant with baby #2! Me and Danny cannot wait to welcome our second child into the world and for Freddy to meet his baby brother or sister.

This time round, pregnancy has been different. You might think that’s obvious with a 3 year old in the mix but it’s more morning (any time of the day) sickness and tiredness to blame. Pregnancy 1 – 0 Tasha. I’m starting to get some more energy back now though. It means I can stay awake past 7pm, most nights anyway.

It’s no surprise that Danny has been as supportive and loving as ever. From getting me anything and everything I need/want, to making sure I’m taking my meds, to telling me to go to bed to get some more rest! I couldn’t be more grateful for him. Especially as Freddy is as energetic as ever.

Time really has flown by and Freddy has taught me everything I know about being a mum. Him and our newborn to be will always be loved so much but Freddy will hold an extra special place in my heart as he’s been there for me just as much as I’ve been there for him. Even through the tantrums and tears, I wouldn’t be the mum I am today without him.

The magic of Christmas this year

To add to the happiness towards the end of this year, Freddy now understands Christmas and Father Christmas coming to visit our house (“Freddy’s house”). His face lit up on Christmas morning when he seen his presents and noticed that the cookie, carrot, and milk had gone. The difference in one whole year is crazy. He wanted to unwrap all the presents, including mine and his daddy’s!

He was definitely tired out in the middle of Boxing Day though. All of the excitement had caught up and worn him out. That, on top of singing away to his Christmas playlist in the car. I love to see him showing his love for what he enjoys every day. My baby boy is growing up too quickly.

And next year, we’ll have two babies to love. Freddy will be a couple of months away from being 4 years old by then but I’ll call him my baby for as many years as I can. Here’s to 2025, our new adventure awaits!