The Mama Perspective | Mum Blog

Do you ever sit back at the end of the week and wonder what you’ve actually achieved… only to land on “nothing really”? Yeah, same here.

But if you pause for a moment and really think about it, you’ll probably realise you’ve done far more than you’re giving yourself credit for. It doesn’t have to be anything huge or life-changing – just small, meaningful wins that quietly carry you through the week.

Take my week, for example.

I’ll be honest, I’ve felt some mum guilt creeping in. The kind that tells you you’re not “doing enough”, especially during the holidays. I managed a couple of lunchtime park trips while the weather was nice, spent time properly playing with the boys, and took them to see the new Mario movie last weekend.

And yet… it still doesn’t feel like enough when you’re scrolling and seeing what other parents are doing.

The reality is, I can’t take every day off during the Easter holidays. If I did, we’d have nothing left for the six-week summer break and, as Freddy would say, no pennies for “getting on the plane for holiday” in a few months.

So instead of focusing on what I haven’t done, here’s what I have done this week. 

1. I reached over 100 followers on The Mama Perspective Facebook page – finally!

Why has it felt so hard to grow on there? Who knows?! But it’s a milestone, and I’m taking it.

2. I managed the juggle

Full-time work and kids at home for the first week of the Easter holidays is no small feat. I’m incredibly grateful for my hybrid role and an understanding company – it’s made all the difference.

3. I let go (a little)

My four-year-old has decided he wants to dress himself every day… including bedtime. When did he get so grown up? He’s saying more and more that he “wants to try” or he “can do it” himself. Okay, big boy, not needing mama for these things.

4. I checked in with myself

I’ve started to recognise what I can realistically handle mentally and physically and I’m using that awareness to stand up for myself both at work and at home. Honestly, who is this new version of me?

5. I proved to myself that I’ve still got it

Deadlines met, work delivered, and a quiet reminder that even in the chaos, I’m still capable. Let’s just see if I’m saying the same thing after week two of Easter holiday madness…

6. I soaked up the baby moments

My youngest has been his usual happy self this week – eating what feels like everything in the house and getting stronger by the day. He’s pulling himself up, cruising along the furniture, and I can tell those first steps aren’t far off now. It’s amazing and bittersweet all at once, watching him grow while wishing time would slow down just a little. Can I go back in time already?

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Maybe this is your reminder too: just because your wins aren’t loud, doesn’t mean they don’t count. 

Sometimes, getting through the week is the achievement.