The Mama Perspective

Being a mum is filled with moments that test my patience and moments that overwhelm me, but there are also moments that bring me so much love. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions, but one thing remains constant – the happiness of being my boy’s mama every single day and wanting the best for him.

I remember my granny used to believe in the saying, “patience is a virtue”. And as a mum, it becomes a daily thought in my mind. There are moments when the chaos of morning routines, coupled with the demands of a toddler, and every day working life, can make patience seem so far away. Yet, in the midst of spilled water/juice/cups of tea, scattered toys, and a few tantrums thrown in, a mother’s patience shines through. It’s a resilience that stems from a deep well of love, a love that allows us to weather the storms of parenting.

Frustration, too, is an inevitable part of the journey. Whether it’s struggling to gentle parent or give into frustration when handling a toddler’s tantrum. But in that time, i try to stop and understand, find a solution or a few, and to get down on my son’s level even if he’s decided to sit on the kitchen floor.

No matter how I feel some days, there’s an undeniable love that overpowers it all. Every giggle, every cuddle, and every kiss means more than disturbed sleep or being close to having a short fuse. It’s a love that goes above exhaustion. As a mum, the instinct to provide, nurture, and protect becomes natural. I’m so happy to be in the midst of parenthood, and love being a mum to my beautiful boy. It means everything to me.

I’m not a perfect mum but I’m still a good mum. I’m not only evolving as a mum but as the person I am too. And I know I’m meant to be on this journey. My patience is can be tested sometimes but I wouldn’t change the past almost two and half years of motherhood. Through it all, the love I have for my son remains the constant, and he lights up all the tough days.

So, to all the mums and dads out there, you too are doing an incredible job. Embrace the journey, love the highs, and find more patience during the lows. Every day is a chance to see your child(ren) grow and hold them close.